30 Wedding Ceremony Ideas To Make Your Wedding Memorable

You’re reading this because you’re in search of alternative wedding ceremony ideas. I walk down the aisle followed by traditional wedding vows for many couples, but for future brides and grooms from non-Catholic backgrounds or upbringings, there are more options than you probably realize.
We’re here to introduce you to a few wedding unity ideas that are unique, fun, romantic, and definitely won’t be found in Disney movies.

Frequently Asked Questions

Inspiring Traditional and Modern Wedding Ceremony Ideas

Light Your Unity Candle

The unity candle ceremony is one of the most meaningful moments of the wedding ceremony. It symbolizes the joining together of two separate lives as one. It has its origins in Judeo-Christian faith but has become a part of secular weddings over the years.

In the unity candle ceremony, the bride and groom each take a lit candle. Then they together light the unity candle. Other variations of this tradition include the parents of the bride and/or groom, lighting the unity candle. Some couples also involve their children in the unity candle lighting. Another variation of wedding rituals with unity candles includes having all of your guests light a unity candle as they enter, saying a prayer or blessing for you as a newly married couple.

Sand Wedding Ceremonies

Sand wedding ceremonies are the perfect alternative for those who do not wish to use a unity candle. They are a great option for an outdoor wedding where lighting a candle might not be possible. In a sand ceremony, the bride and groom each take a different color of sand and take turns pouring them into a glass bottle or vase. You can also have other family members join in on the sand ceremony.

The colors of the sand are entirely up to you. A lot of couples use sand from a place that is meaningful to them. This could be a favorite childhood beach or a place they vacationed as a couple. The sand then blends to become one. You would proudly display the sand vase or bottle in your home as a symbol of your love. Remember to add collecting your sand to your wedding list to do.

If you are looking for an alternative to unity candles or sand ceremony, you can create your own spice. As a couple, you would choose up to seven spices that symbolize your dreams and hopes for your marriage and blend them into a special glass bottle. For example, paprika symbolizes passion and nutmeg, romance. You would then later use the spice for cooking as a married couple.

Water Blending

Similar to the sand ceremony, you would blend together two separate colors of water to form one color to symbolize your marriage. It is recommended that you experiment with different colors beforehand.

Tie the God’s knot

The first unique wedding ceremony idea to get familiar with is God’s Hand. This ceremony has its roots in Celtic tradition and has a clear connection with God.

Ecclesiastes 4:12: “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

This is a great wedding ceremony option for couples who are looking for something a little less religious and a little more spiritual, but still want to satiate a few key wedding guests.

The ceremony is simple. Using 3 lengths of rope, ribbon, cord, scarf, or fabric from a family heirloom, the couple holds opposite hands. The strands of fabric are braided together, symbolizing man, woman, and God. The officiant wraps the couple’s hands and wrists, binding them together and inviting God into their relationship.

This is very likely the origin of the term “tying the knot”.

Handfasting

Handfasting is one simple step away from God’s Knot. This unique wedding unity idea carries the same sentiment as God’s Knot, but removes the Christian aspects.

The origin of this practice is the culmination of many ancient (mostly Pagan) European cultures. This means that you can believe in one god, multiple gods, Gaia, elemental spirits, or no god at all, and it will still carry the same significance.

Hand-tying is a symbolic gesture that physically binds the couple together as two people following one path together. It unites the body as well as the soul.

Due to its origins, hand tying if currently very popular with followers of pagan and wiccan beliefs.

If you have a blended family, such as children from previous marriages you may wish for them to take part in your wedding ceremony. Following is some suggestions for wedding ceremony ideas that include the entire family, such as it may be.

Unity Family Puzzle Board

You could have a special wooden puzzle created to symbolize you’re joining as a blended family. You would then assemble the unity puzzle together as a family during the wedding ceremony. Make sure to include symbols of unity.

Family Tree

You could either plant a tree a family during your wedding. Or perhaps you could each gather family photos and other things that symbolize family and make a “family tree” collage as part wedding ceremony. Both of these are cool wedding ideas that involve the entire family.

You could ask guests to bring pictures of the two of you as part of your gift registry ideas. During the ceremony, you could add these photos to your family tree or album.

Family Unity Painting

As a family, you could take turns painting a canvas during the ceremony. This would symbolize the blending of your families. You would then proudly display it in your family home.

Blanket Unity Ceremony

Even if you grew up in a Christina, Jewish, or Muslim household, there’s no denying that the Native Americans nailed the connecting with nature portion of spirituality.

This wedding ceremony unity idea begins by wrapping the bride in one blanket and the groom in another, both blue. This represents their individual past lives. The couple are then both wrapped in a single white blanket symbolizing peace and happiness.

If you’re Native American you’ll probably be more fulfilled doing things by the book. If you’re simply looking for alternative wedding ceremony ideas that involve nature and the elements, feel free to adapt this to your personal expectations of a marriage ceremony.

Light A Fire

Fire has been a powerful symbol throughout human history. Fire purifies and represents change, illumination, and enlightenment.
The lighting of unity fires are wedding ceremonies ideas that have permeated Christianit, Paganism, and Native American – to name a few – cultures, but they all hold a common theme.

A candle or large outdoor fire is lit simultaneously by the bride and groom. It’s quite common to include vows and Ceremony music. The end result is evoking the symbols mentioned above into your marriage.

If you’re going with the Native American route, there are specific tasks to keep in mind. The high side of the fire should be built with stone, and the logs that hold the fire should be cut from 7 types of specific trees. Two smaller fires are also lit to represent the single lives they once led.

Time Capsule

Unlike the other ideas for wedding ceremonies, this unique ceremony isn’t inspired by ancient traditions. It’s new.

A time capsule involves the couple placing items from their courtship and wedding – we recommend currency from countries you’ve visited, your wedding program, a newspaper from your wedding day, photographs, a menu from your first date’s restaurant, music, etc..) into a box that’s buried and dug up on a significant anniversary.

Today’s couples not only want symbolism, but they also seek engagement. That’s exactly what you’ll get with a time-capsule wedding ceremony!
This isn’t a common wedding ceremony idea, so if you’re searching for new and exciting to impress your guests with, this is it.

How can the bride incorporate something special at the end of the ceremony?

Sometimes wedding planning can be so hectic that it’s easy to forget that you’re planning a party for YOU. Even at the height of party planning, it’s important that your wedding feels like an extension of you two as a couple. Here are a few personal touches couples can add to your big day to make it feel less traditional and more personal:

• Curate a playlist with your DJ
• Order custom cocktail napkins with your initials or an illustration of your pet
• Practice for a memorable first dance (take some dance lessons!)
• Have a photo guest book (i.e. guests take polaroid pictures as they arrive & tape them in with handwritten notes)
• Write a shoe note (i.e. you & your honey exchange a shoe the night before the wedding and write love notes to each other on them)

Carissa Corsi New England Wedding Planner.

Wedding Ceremonies With Drinks

Many couples use drink ceremonies for unique wedding ceremony rituals. These include, but are not limited to unity tea ceremony, wine ceremony and many others. Make sure to keep track of these in your detailed wedding budget checklist.

Wine Ceremony

In this ceremony, you would blend together two wines into a wine bottle. This symbolizes the blending together of your love. It also symbolizes that like a fine wine, marriage takes years to fully mature. You would then open the wine on a special anniversary. Most couples chose to blend a fine white and red wine together for their wine ceremony.

Unity Tea

As an ancient Chinese wedding tradition, you would both choose your favorite blend of tea or one that represents you. During your ceremony, you would mix the two together and then drink it. You could also invite your guests to take part in this tradition.

Whiskey Barrel

If you aren’t a fan of fine wines, you could barrel a whiskey instead. You would each choose an unaged whiskey and funnel them into a personalized mini whiskey barrel. You could also do the same with gin, beer or another alcoholic beverage of your choice.

Add Some Green To Wedding Rituals

If you are eco-friendly, you could honor one of the timeless but unique wedding traditions or be planting a tree, plant or flower. You would both gather a bucket of soil from a place in nature that has a special meaning. You would then choose the type of tree, flower or plant that you wish to use for the ceremony and acquire a seed (or seeds).

During the ceremony, you would both take turns adding the seed(s), soil and water to the pot. You would then take the pot home. You could plant it in your yard. Flowers or a plant you could bring inside.

Following is an example of some seeds and their meaning:

• Apple: knowledge, faith, and fertility
• Birch: new beginnings
• Maple: balance
• Willow: harmony

Non-traditional Wedding Ceremony Ideas

Non-traditional wedding ideas break away from the traditional ceremony format and allow couples to incorporate unique and personal touches into their special day.

• Play a Song Together: Rather than hiring a musician or DJ to play music during your wedding ceremony, consider playing a song together as a couple. This could be a song that is meaningful to both of you, and it can create a beautiful and emotional moment during the ceremony.
• Walk Down the Aisle Together: Rather than having the bride walk down the aisle alone, consider walking down the aisle together as a couple. This will create a more inclusive and modern ceremony and show your commitment to each other as equals.
• Include Your Furry Friends: If you have pets that are important to you, consider including them in your wedding ceremony. This could be having them as part of the wedding party, or even having them walk down the aisle with you. This will create a fun and personalized moment during the ceremony and will show your love for your furry friends.

Create Your Own Special Ritual

Of course, you don’t have to use the aforementioned types of rituals. As a couple, you could come up with your own creative and unique wedding ceremony ideas. Following are some examples to help inspire you!

• Write your own wedding vows
• Compose your wedding song
• Release a wish lantern
• Pass around your wedding rings and have the guests bless them (ring warming ceremony)
• Create a wedding cocktail
• Have your pets be a part of the wedding
• Have a friend register as your wedding officiant
• Make your own wedding favors
• Create a unity volcano
• Wishing Well rocks or a stone garden
• Wood Branding or Welding
• Bride and groom gift exchange

Who says you have to stick with tradition? Where you decide to go with mrs or miss as your married name, or just keep your own last name – the choice is yours. Everything about your wedding should be personalized and special to the two of you as a couple!

What influences you? A being higher than yourself? Nature? Symbolism?
Encorporate what matters most to you, and don’t be shy about altering a few traditions to suit your personal style. Do this and you’ll land on the perfect unity idea for your wedding!